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Leaving

People ask me a lot why I came to Egypt.  I’ve never really given a coherent answer – I used to study Arabic, I’ll say, or I’ve always wanted to go to Egypt;, or I wanted to do human rights work – and every time I answer I feel like I’m faking.  Which makes sense, because none of those were really why I came.

Last year was awful for me.  I was miserable for most of the year, especially the first half, and even when things began to improve in the spring my life in the States seemed, generally, to possess a patina of sadness.  And, so, I decided to leave, hoping that being far away from my life would give me perspective and new, better things to think about.  Where I went mattered much less, and I ended up choosing Egypt because it was far away where I knew no one, but it was somewhere that I could, at least rudimentarily, communicate.

I can’t articulate what being here meant to me because I don’t know myself, but it’s obvious to me, now, that it affected me profoundly.  So much in this city and country is broken, and life here is full of constant, daily frustrations.  I can’t say that I’d recommend to most people that they visit Cairo.  And, yet, I’m happier here than I have been in a year.  I haven’t been here long, really, but it feels as though it’s my home already.  But I’m leaving tonight.

I miss a lot of people and things back in the States, but there is no part of me that wants to leave here.  And even though I’m excited to get back to New York, and knowing things will be great here, I have never in my life been so sad about leaving a place.

For a few more hours, Cairo is home.  If I could stay, I would.

Thirty Hours

As I write this, I have just under thirty hours left in Egypt.  One more full day.  I’m really quite sad about the prospect of leaving.

The last two days have been really great.  Yesterday was Lizz’s mom’s last day in Cairo, so I went with them and Matt in the afternoon to do a bit of silly tourist shopping and also bought a duffel bag for about five dollars because I need a bit more room in my bag coming home.  We had koshari and walked around downtown and Zamalek, just wandering and, for me, getting some last looks at parts of the city that I likely won’t visit again before I leave.

In the evening, we and Max all met up at this fancy restaurant in Zamalek for a final dinner as a house (plus extras).  The restaurant is, more or less, Cairo’s one upscale Egyptian restaurant – very popular, reasonably expensive for Cairo.  We ordered a huge variety of foods, most of which were quite good.  The menu even had koshari, and written in parentheses next to it was “eat like an Egyptian.”  We saw koshari for five or six times what we would normally pay at a fancier koshari shop and Max and I just had to try it.  Considering how much koshari I’ve eaten in this country, and from how many different places, I’m pretty sure that it would have been irresponsible not to have had it.  And the verdict: definitely inferior to the best of normal koshari I’ve eaten, but not bad.

The highlight of dinner, much more than the food, was what turned into an amazingly hilarious conversation about super colliders.  Undoubtedly this was one of those you had to be there things, but briefly what happened was that for some reason I started talking about the Large Hadron Collider that is about to come online in Switzerland.  Max started asking a bunch of joking and absurd questions about it, and expressing general disbelief that you could get two particles to hit eachother after shooting them through miles long tubes.  At some point, I asked Max how you would say Supercollider in Arabic, and of course he didn’t know – most likely there isn’t actually a word for it.  Lizz, though, took a stab at translating it and came up with MuSaDam Kabeer which means, more or less, Big Crasher or Big Smacker, and it’s even funnier because Saddam Hussein’s name comes from the same root.  So we ended up talking for most of the rest of the evening about the absurdities of the MuSaDam Kabeer and, more specifically, about Yemen (where Max is off to) building one.  And about religion-based science.  It was quite great.

Then, after dinner, we came back home and Lizz and her mom had to head to the airport – Lizz was off to Turkey and her mother to India – and I said bye to Lizz.

***

Today, Matt, who stayed with us last night, Max, and I just hung around most of the morning and early afternoon.  We listened to music and chatted and Max cooked tuna macaroni and cheese for lunch all the while cleaning his clothes more or less by hand and bitching about Mansour.

Max wanted to possibly buy a few new pieces of clothing before heading to Yemen, so Matt and I went with him to this giant outdoor used clothing market a bit north of downtown.  Most of the clothes are horribly out of date and ugly, but there were some decent retro looking men’s shirts and the like among them, which was what Max was looking for.  This market is very much an Egyptian market, and so we three white guys were pretty anomalous walking through and of course attracted a fair amount of attention, and the sales guys would come up to us and try to talk to us in broken English.  Max, I suppose tired of this after several years in Egypt, simply pretended like he didn’t understand when people spoke English to him.  He would just look confused and say in Arabic that he didn’t understand, and when asked where we were from he would say Poland.  No one spoke Polish.

We did our shopping, not actually buying anything but having a fun time browsing, and had some really wonderful coconut juice at this little juice shop near the market.  We went in and asked for orange juice, but the guy behind the counter insisted we try some juice called subya that none of us had ever heard of.  We tried it though, and it was great – incredibly refreshing – and between the three of us we had two big glasses and a bottle of coke.  When we went to pay, they said two and a half pounds, and we all thought he meant per drink, but, in fact, he only wanted the equivalent of about forty cents for all three.  And he wouldn’t even take a tip.

Walking back to find a cab, we passed a little shop selling motorcycles.  Max’s dream, it seems, is to go to Sudan, and he has talked often of buying a cheap motorcycle and riding it to Khartoum, and when we passed the shop he decided to ask how much the bikes cost.  He and I made bets on how much, I figured 15,000 pounds and he thought 12,000.  Actual cost: 2800 pounds, about 600 dollars – we remain fairly disconnected from the true costs of things here.  Six hundred dollars, though, is something that Max can afford even on his small salary, and he talked about buying a bike the rest of the day.

Matt left after we got back home and Max and I cleaned the apartment and listened to music.  At some point, his friend Emily called him and asked if we wanted to do a felucca ride tonight because she was taking a visiting friend on one.  I’d never been, and it was a nice night, so we decided to go and called Ben to come along.  The felucca ride, sailing on the Nile at dusk on my last full night in Egypt, was really nice.  It wasn’t too hot, and out on the water it was quiet and pretty.  Really good.

The felucca dropped us off across the street from the Four Seasons, and after we disembarked we ended up in a conversation about how nice the bathroom at the hotel was, and then that turned into a suggestion by someone to go drink overpriced juice somewhere in the hotel.  Our group, looking sweaty and dirty (me with dirty feet, sandals, and pants rolled to the knee) entered the city’s fanciest hotel and felt terribly out of place, but because we are Western no one bothers us.  We thought maybe there was a rooftop bar, so we went to the top and just found rooms, but eventually found an outside area on the fifth floor.  I really can’t describe to you just how much fancier this outside restaurant, pool, and sitting area was than anything else I’ve seen in Egypt.  It was crazy – we were seated on couches with our own plasma TV outside overlooking the pool.  Everyone else there appeared to be rich Saudis or Emiratis.

And so we sat for a couple hours, talking and ending the day in Egypt’s fanciest hotel sipping juice forty times more expensive and half as good as what we had had hours earlier in a grimy market across town.

Wonderful day, all in all.  I wish I had more.

One of the many amenities of our elegant aparment here in Cairo is what is charitably known as a semi-automatic washing machine.  It works like this: you put your clothes in a big vat on the left side along with soap which you have to manually fill with water using a hose connected to a tap on the wall.  The hose doesn’t connect well, either to the machine or to the wall, and it sprays water all over; you can only use cold water because the hot water here is so obscenely hot it seems like it might melt the rubber hose.  Once the tub is filled, the machine half heartedly tosses around your clothes for fifteen minutes in their own filth – which I note is quite extreme here – and then you turn on the drain, remove the clothes, and move them to another compartment on the right side.  Apparently, this is called the dryer.  It spins your clothes, and you have the option to rinse them by attaching the hose again while the clothes spin.  The timer on the dryer can’t be set for more than five minutes, so you end up going to the bathroom to reset it five or six times before the clothes are finally dry enough to be taken out to hang on the line without tracking water all over the apartment.  On the line, your clothes dry in the hot Cairo sun and take on just enough dust and dirt to be comfortably stiff when you put them on again.

At best, you do the whole cleaning cycle twice – clean, “dry,” clean again, “dry” again, and then hang them outside – and you have reasonably clean clothes.  This hasn’t been possible for the past couple weeks, though, because the dryer section of the machine has been broken – it seems to get bogged down with water and stop spinning very quickly, which means you can’t really rinse your clothes.  We all want to do laundry right now since we all leave in the space of the next sixty hours or so, but with the machine in its present state it’s a bit difficult.

Max, in particular, hasn’t taken this very well.  He’s been trying for weeks to get Mansour, our bawab, to have the machine repaired.  Mansour kept saying sure but then not getting a repairman over until the other day when his nephew came by to ask for his monthly payment and Max told him we wouldn’t pay until a repairman came.  The next morning, one showed up and theoretically fixed the machine and we payed Mansour.  But by the next day, the machine was broken again, and Mansour has thus far failed to bring someone else by to fix it.  Yesterday, he said someone was coming at 2:00, but he never showed up.  Max, one of the nicer and gentler people I know, is about as mad as he gets, frustrated with the impossibility of getting some simple things done here sometimes.

Last night, this frustration turned into a conversation between Max, Lizz, and I about Egypt, Mansour, and related subjects.  We were discussing Mansour’s current living situation – his wife is in Aswan giving birth to their first child because she doesn’t really like living in a garage in Cairo, and Mansour is having to share is tiny apartment and bed – not to mention his meager income – with his nephew Yahiya, who is sort of an asshole and has come to Cairo to live with Mansour because he needs work.  As near as anyone can tell, Mansour’s job is about enough work for 1/4 of a person, and now it’s being done by two people for the same amount of money, which is unfortunate for Mansour because he has a new kid to support.

In any case, during this conversation, Max again became frustrated with Mansour about the washing machine because getting it fixed is basically the one thing any of us have ever asked Mansour to do for us.  Max was talking about how the only thing that seemed to work was withholding his money, which we’ve now paid, and Max seemed to think he was going to have to get a bit more aggressive again if we wanted the repair done quickly.  It was decided that Max would curse his children to look like washing machines if ours wasn’t repaired soon.

Obviously, this is all in jest.  In fact, Mansour is a wonderful bowab, honest and trustworthy.  Also very good looking, and we’ve decided as a house that were there an issue of GQ about bawabs, Mansour would probably go on the cover.

***

Yesterday, too, I finally started feeling better.  I had lunch with Reham and another friend at the French cultural center, which was tasty, and then in the evening we had a girl come by to look at the apartment since our lease is up at the end of August.  Max and I took her up to meet Safi, and we ended up hanging out for a while in the Madam’s penthouse apartment, which currently is under renovation and without floors or interior or exterior walls.  I’m not sure if this is normal in Cairo, but I was surprised to find that in the absence of a floor in this 6th story apartment, the ground was sand.  I guess they do have a lot of it here.

Afterward, we went to the roof and drank tea with Safi and his friend Ibrahim, which was nice as always.  Hopefully I’ll be able to go up and hang out with him once more before I leave.

***

Lizz and her mother leave late tonight, Lizz for Turkey for vacation and her mother to her new job in Bangalore, India.  A college friend of Lizz’s was supposed to also arrive late tonight in Cairo and was going to stay with us for a couple days, and I had been given all his information since Lizz wouldn’t be here.  Lizz had planned to call him a nice Yellow Cab to wait for him at the airport to make sure he got in alright, etc., but then last night about 1:45AM Lizz realized that he landed in fifteen minutes rather than in 24 hours like she thought.  She frantically tried to arrange airport pick-up for him, and ran out of credits on her mobile while on hold with the cab company.  Then she remembered we had the number for a driver who only works at night, so she called him with my phone.  He was on vacation and asleep, so she woke him up.  Then finally she got through to the cab company and they agreed to send out a driver, but when he arrived he called very upset at the idea of waiting for this guy and decided to leave the airport.  At that point we gave up and just decided to hope Matt was resourceful enough to get to our apartment on his own.  Two more cabs called me, somehow, to assure us that they were waiting for him and that his flight had landed.  It hadn’t, though – it ended up being two hours late – so I’m not sure who those drivers were or what they were talking about.  I also got two missed calls from a number that always was busy when we tried to call back.

Matt did make it safely to Garden City at about 5AM.

Winding Down

I haven’t written much the last few days because I’ve been a bit sick – allergies or a cold – for the last few days and haven’t been up to anything really.  It’s sort of annoying to be sick my last week here, and I hope that I’m better tomorrow so I can actually get up to something during my last four days in Egypt.

Today I had my last Arabic lesson, which went pretty well I think.  Overall, I feel like I improved my Arabic a fair amount while I was here.  I still am fairly uncomfortable when I speak – I get nervous easily – but my vocabulary is more robust and I understand more.  Hopefully I can keep working on it when I get back home.

I mostly wrote today to post a few pictures I took the other night while I was on a walk.  Just three or four, all of my neighborhood here.  Two are of Qasr al-Einy, the main street that is near my house which is always busy and makes my daily crossings fairly harrowing.  Another is of the corner store where I buy my water and other items all the time, and the last is of a juice shop open late into the night after everything else had closed.

One Week

As of tomorrow, I will only have one week left in Egypt, which is sort of a sad thought.  Worse, both Max and Lizz are actually leaving to go on vacation a few days before I head out, so my last couple days here may well be alone.

Not a great deal has been going on recently.  Lizz’s mom came to visit a few days ago, so we’ve been doing some house activities to acquaint her with the city.  Also, a guy I know from law school is goign to be in Cairo for the next few days, and I’ll probably meet up with him for a meal or something.

Last week I once again cooked Mexican food for my roommates.  I’m not sure what it was, but it’s a recipe of Gilbert’s that I’d really liked when I had at his house – cubed beef in a spicy Mexican tomato sauce.  I also made Mexican rice, and both were quite excellent.  Plus, there was enough for us to eat leftovers for another couple days.  One problem in cooking the dish was that the canned tomato sauce that the recipe called for couldn’t be found at the supermarket here, so I bought tomato paste instead for something like 20LE (~$4) a can.  Ridiculous.  On the other hand, dinner tonight was 4LE (~$0.75), and when I return to NYC I definitely won’t be living like that anymore.

More amusing was my attempt to find tortillas.  I went to the Alfamarket, where I had bought them before, but I couldn’t find any where they had been last time.  I asked one of the employees where they had tortillas, and he just looked at me confused.  Clearly he had no idea what a tortilla was.  Egyptian bread, called 3aysh, though, is like a tortilla – round and flat – but thicker.  I tried to explain to him in Arabic what a tortilla was by saying it was like 3aysh only thinner.  He says, “Oh!” and takes me to the 3aysh.  No, like 3aysh, but thinner.  He takes me to the cookies.  Not sweet, I say.  He asks someone else, and while asking that person a wealthier looking Egyptian also starts trying to help, saying it’s from Spain and some other things.  Again, he seems as if he knows exactly where to take me, but it’s still futile.  He asks me again, “Spanish bread?” and I realize the small mistake and correct him, “no, 3aysh mekseekee.”  And off he runs and brings me directly to the tortillas.  So, all, if you want tortillas in the Middle East, just call it Mexican Bread.

To go with the dinner, Lizz and I decided to try to make this drink that I had had once when I worked at the Dip Net Restaurant up in Maine during high school.  My boss had called it Brazilian limeade, and as far as I could remember it contained lime juice, cocunut milk, and club soda.  Coconut milk was easy enough to find after we decided on what the correct term for it was in Arabic, but lime juice is not something you can find in a grocery store here.  Many ahwas sell it, though, so we thought we could maybe buy it from a juice shop in a large quantity.  But no, the several we tried didn’t sell it.  So, we decided to make it ourselves.  We went tot he market and bought two kilos of limes (I think this is around four pounds, but I’m not sure) and brought them back to the apartment and spent the next couple hours juicing them by hand.  It was totally absurd, and to make it really wonderful I’m pretty sure that I got the recipe for the juice wrong and so no one really liked it (except Lizz, who loved it and drank it for days).

Otherwise, not a great deal has been up.  I watched a pretty funny Palestinian movie today with Max and had my penultimate Arabic lesson.  Also, went to the French Cultural Center for lunch and had a savory crepe with good cheese, which was a nice treat.  Problem with the French Cultural Center, for me, though, is that they respond to everything you say in French, a language that I speak far, far worse than Arabic.  So, over and over I would say things to the waiter in Arabic and he’d respond to me in French that I couldn’t understand.  I hoped that speaking in Arabic would indicate I wasn’t French, but no such luck.

I really am not sure what I’m going to do with the little time I have left here.  There are a few more places I want to go, but I suspect it won’t be an extremely busy week.  Some people have said I should do another trip, but I don’t think I will – what has made Egypt great for me has been the people I’ve met more than the things I’ve seen, and I think I’d rather stay in Cairo which, for a bit longer, I can call home.

Siwa

I’ve been remiss in not writing these last few days about my trip to Siwa, which was probably the highlight of my time in Egypt.  The plan is to correct that.

After driving through the desert, all the sudden there are palm trees by the thousands.  Then there are small buildings and dusty roads.  And then the bust stops in front of a nondescript mudbrick building and everyone gets off and is greeted by boys on donkey-driven taxis offering to take you to hotels.  This is Siwa.

I knew already where I wanted to stay, so I just asked one of the kids how to get there and walked on.  The hotel itself was a nice mudbrick place among palm trees a little ways off from the town’s main square.  Very quiet, with a nice big room with a private bath, which had been my main requirement for staying in Siwa after the hotel from the night before.  I got the key to my room and immediately showered.

Siwa is populated by Berbers, the native people of North Africa who inhabited the region before the Arabs took over.  Everyone speaks Arabic, except for the very old and very young, but everyone also speaks taSwit, a Berber language.  Siwa was once a very important town, the cite of the Oracle of Amun, one of the most important oracles of Ancient Egypt.  Every Pharaoh would travel Siwa to seek the Oracle’s confirmation that he was the sun of god.  Alexander the Great, wishing to lend legitimacy to his rule over Egypt, also trekked to Siwa to consult the Oracle of Amun, and the place left such an impression on him that he vowed to be buried there.

In medieval times, not much is known about Siwa.  They resisted the initial Arab invasion of Egypt but eventually converted to Islam.  Still, they remained disconnected from the greater empire and hostile to outsiders.  Siwa did not accept that it was a part Egypt until well into the 20th Century, and pavement roads only connected it to the rest of the country in the 1980s.

Throughout its history, Siwa was fertile land that produced some of the best dates and olives in the region.  During harvest season, the town would be raided by bedouins trying to steal their crops, and the Siwans would retreat into a mud brick fortress on a hill that rose five stories above the surrouding land.  These ruins remained inhabited until the 1920s, when a three day rain caused much of the structure to literally melt.  A few buildings on the edges are still in use, and the ruins still stand on a hill in the middle of Siwa village as the most imposing structure in the oasis.

The evening of my arrival, after my shower, I decided I wanted to try to climb to the top of the fortress, called the Shali.  I walked near it, but couldn’t find a place to climb, but while going through some back neighborhood streets I ran into three young boys who tried to talk to me.  The conversation mostly consisted of them wanting the names of various animals in English, or their saying what they thought were the names of animals in English.  Dog, rabbit, etc.  The best one was when one of the kids said what I was pretty sure was “boobies.”  We had been talking about animals, so I looked at him confused and asked, “boobies?”  He told me in Arabic, “small dog.”  He was saying, “puppies.”

I asked the kids if it was possible to climb the Shali and whether they would show me where I could get up.  They ran off and I followed them to a sort-of-path up the side of the hill.  They then asked me if I had a pen, and I gave them the one that I had and they seemed very excited.  I know this is fairly common among children in places like this – asking for pens – but I’m not sure why.

I climed all around on the Shali and then sat down on the highest part to watch the sunset.  It was very pretty and from there I could see all of the town, the orchards of the oasis, the huge salt lake nearby, and, of course, the desert only a short distance away in every direction.  The contrast between the incredibly dense date trees that seemed to suddenly stop at the far-off dunes was almost surreal.

After sunset, I had a mediocre dinner at the most popular and oldest restaurant in town.  Dinner was nothing special, but it was nice to sit outside in the time square and watch what rural life was like here.  Slower, less crazy, maybe more friendly.  People are poor in Siwa, like everywhere in Egypt, but I have to think that even the poorest Siwans are better off than the poorest Cairenes.  Siwa, at least, has clean, abundant water for its crops and a great deal of income from tourists.

I noticed almost immediately on that first night that, from an outsider’s perspective, the town must have no women.  In Cairo, women work in shops and other places, and you seem them on the streets everywhere.  In Siwa, they are hidden.  None work, and they don’t even walk around if they don’t have to.  When they do, they where a black veil that hides their whole face and a very distinctive blue cloak that covers their head and body, called a tarfotet.  They walk mostly in the back alleys, and when you seem them in the town square they are sitting in the back of a donkey cart or pickup truck being driven somewhere.

On my first morning in Siwa, the first thing I did was go and rent a bike.  Bikes, along with donkey carts, are one of the preferred methods of transportation in Siwa, and there are several bike rental shops along the town square where you can rent a bike for the day for about $2.  Mine was a hot pink girl’s bike with no brakes and a basket on the front.  It was pretty awesome.

The thing I most wanted to do in Siwa was take a trip to the desert, and so I called a tour guide that I had met on the ride to Siwa who seemed quite nice, but he didn’t answer.  Then I rode by the tourist office, knowing that they could help with safaris, but it was closed because it was Friday morning.  So, I went to my hotel and talked to the manager, who had tried to get me to do a safari with his friend the day before.  Having no other options, I agreed to that offer after I talked the price down a bit (though I thought the final price we arrived at was still too high).  The safari was to leave at four that afternoon.

Having that figured out, I rode to Gebel Moutas, a hill a couple kilometers away where hundreds of tombs had been carved for wealthy ancient Egyptians.  I climbed around there and looked at the view of the oasis and the many tombs, some of which had some pretty cool paintings still intact.  While leaving the hill, I ran into a Canadian girl and her Siwi guide.  We talked for a few minutes and they both seemed friendly and interesting.  They mentioned they were going to the desert to spend the night that night and asked if I wanted to come along.  I said I may want to and got Hilal’s phone number – I had a reservation already, but this one seemed with better people and cheaper.

So, I went back to my hotel to talk to the manager and cancel the safari reservation, which was much easier than I expected.  The manager gave me back the deposit I’d give him without trouble and I called Hilal to let him know that I’d like to go with them.

My next excursion on my bike was an attempt to reach Fatnas Island, a small island in the big salt lake about six kilometers from town.  I road for a while in the direction that I assumed was towards Fatnas for several miles over sandy, potholed roads.  Eventually oasis turned to desert, and I kept riding through sandy fields where people were trying with various degrees of success to grow crops.  I feel as though I must have looked pretty absurd riding a a pink girl’s bike through the desert.  I felt absurd.

I went back again to my hotel to get my passport from the manager.  He had it because I’d given it to him to get permission from the mukhabarat to go on safari – you need permission to go to the desert – and I needed it back so I could give it to Hilal to get permission to go with them.  He was friendly and invited me to have tea, so we went and drank on the shady roof of the building.  He gave me some dates from his private stash, which were excellent, and we talked about Siwa and other things in a mix of Arabic and English.  I mentioned that the hotel seemed empty, and he said that this time of the year was the worst for tourism – that there were only four people in the hotel, but that in November it would be full.  Right now it’s too hot for most people.

I brought my passport to a friend of Hilal’s to get my permission and then had a lunch at the same mediocre restaurant as the night before before setting out to try to find Fatnas Island again on bike.  This time I actually asked some kids for directions.  Again, I rode for miles through the desert, but this time eventually did reach the water.  On the island is a small spring-fed pool with very pretty blue water.  No one was swimming, though there were sandals and clothes nearby.  A little bit futher along the path is a small ahwa outside on the edge of the island.  No one was there, not even an employee, though it looked open.  The island isn’t as pretty as it once was, apparently, because the town has had to drain the lake some to keep the area from getting too salinated, which would kill the crops.  Now the island is surrounded more by mudflats than water, though the lake itself remains quite nice looking.

Riding back, I passed an area with incredibly red, almost martian looking soil and little puddles grown over with a hard white substance.  Apparently it was salt, and I spent some time walking around among the salt pools as I’d never seen anything similar.

After six miles of desert biking I was hot, so I went to an ahwa and had a glass of chilled karkaday tea and talked to a man from Tanta who had just opened an animal feed shop in Siwa.  He was very friendly and asked me to come have tea with him again in the evening with another friend who spoke better English, but I had to turn him down since I was going to the desert that night.

At five that afternoon, I met Hilal in the town square.  We walked to a back alley where a 4×4 was parked, and he told me to wait there.  A driver showed up and told me to get in.  I didn’t know who he was, but I did what he said, and then we went to meet Hilal, Danielle, and her friend Tamalyn to go out to the desert.

As it turns out, Tamalyn was very familiar with Siwa.  She’s apparently a famous American bellydance instructor, about 50 years old, who has been to Siwa eight times.  She wrote a book about some of her travels and included a chapter on the Oasis, which I read and which gave an interesting view of its culture and history.  Hilal, the guide, was a good friend of hers.  Danielle, the Canadian, is also a dancer, and knew Tamalyn from having taken a dance workshop from her.

We all headed out towards the desert with our driver, Tushtush.  Like almost all the drivers who take tourists to the desert, Tushtush is a bedouin and has an incredibly deep knowledge of the desert.  Later in the evening he would tell us all sorts of stories about his childhood and his adventures in the desert.  He grew up in a small Bedouin town in the oasis but when he was young worked in Libya.  To get to work, he would walk two days through the desert with his donkey.  He claimed to be able to go anywhere in the desert one time and then return righ there without a problem at any later time.  He said he could drive hundreds of kilometers into a desert whose landmarks are constantly shifting and be able to drive directly back to Siwa because he just always knew what direction it was in.  Many people I met in Siwa said that Tushtush was the best driver around.

We drove into the desert, and almost at once everyone in the truck seemed stunned by the beauty of the desert.  The dunes are huge, bigger than I would have thought, and the wind blows them into amazing shapes and gives them razor edges.  From a distance, they look incredibly soft, almost blurry.  For a while we just drove around looking, with Tushtush occasionally speeding over the peaks of dunes, turning the 4×4 into a rollercoaster.

Our first stop in the desert was a hot spring.  Tamalyn and Hilal swam, but I just put my feet in.  Like everyone in Siwa, Hilal wears a galabiyya and headdress most of the time, and when he said he was swimming I figured he would swim in his galabiyya.  Instead, though, shocking both me and the several Japanese girls also hanging out there, he stripped right down to his briefs to get in.  Not something I expected in this conservataive, rural town.

After the hot springs we went to a cool lake in the valley of several dunes called Bir Wahed.  There were fish there, small ones, and I’m not sure how they got there.  While we were hanging out at the lake, Hilal yelled something at us that we couldn’t catch and then ran off to the truck and sped away with Tushtush.  We were confused, especially when another driver also sped off without his passengers.  They sped off and up a huge dune nearby where it appeared that a 4×4 was stuck at the top.  The drivers helped unstick the truck and came back for us.  Hilal told us that the driver of that truck was a particularly dangerous driver.  “If you want danger, go with him,” he said.  “Of course, I ride with him, but not with tourists.  I wouldn’t know what I would do if a tourist got hurt.”  And, indeed, a tourist did get hurt, as evidenced by the bandages I saw this one Spanish girl wearing later that evening on her hand and ankle.

We drove on to an area of the desert where, in a valley between dunes, the ground is a giant mass of compressed sea shells and coral.  This all used to be ocean.

It was nearing sunset by this time, so we drove to the top of a huge dune to watch.  It looked pretty incredible, with really amazing colors.  The five of us sat chatting on top of this dune long after the sun had gone down and the first stars had begun to rise.

Finally, we went to the place where we would be spending the night.  It’s an area with one building where many of the safari drivers take their tours to sleep.  There is a guy who cooks everyone dinner, and there are a number of people, both local and tourists, hanging out.  When we arrived, long after the other few trucks of tourists, we had to wait a while for our dinner.  When it was finally ready, they brought over dinner only for Tamaly, Danielle, and I, thinking that Hilal and Tushtush would eat off to the side like most of the other locals.  I noticed at this point that, indeed, there was no mixing between the tourists and the Siwans other than in our little group, and it made me thankful to be with those I was with.  We got a couple more plates and all ate together and had a great time.

Tushtush was wonderful, and he told us great stories as we sat after dinner.  Tushtush is maybe 45 or 50 and just had a new baby about a month ago, and he was telling us just about how much he loved his wife, especially her long hair (his love on long hair came up many times over the night).  He told us about how he would go out on safari for a week or more and miss her and then come home and say to her, “I missed you, take a shower and put on perfume,” and when he told us this he made hilarious hand motions.  His wife, he said, would just reply, “Go away Tushtush, you’re too old for that.”

He told us about a pretty European woman who had been on safari with him several times over the years, and said, jokingly, “I could take another wife, but my wife, she would kill me in my sleep.”

After dinner, Tushtush and some other locals sat around a fire and started singing and playing music.  Tamalyn and Danielle, being dancers, wanted more music and Hilal decided to get a group of local Siwan musicians to come out and play for us.  We figured we could get the people at the camp to all kick in a few pounds to pay them.

After a couple hours, the musicians showed up, a group of fifteen men with various instruments.  No one in the camp but us seemed interested in what they were doing, so we went off a ways from the camp and all sat down together for them to do their music.  Interesting, traditional Siwan music is essentially only played by musicians who are drunk and stoned.  Both hash and alcohol, though, are illegal in Siwa, so they drink homemade date wine.  The men started playing, and did so for several hours while continuously passing around a bong and shot glasses of date wine poured from plastic water bottles.  At one point, a cop from town showed up and the musicians were all afraid to play anymore.  Hilal, though, talked to the cop, a friend, who assured him that he wasn’t there to get anyone in trouble.  He was a cop in Siwa, he said, not in the desert.  The music started again and went until they hash and liquor ran out.  Then the musicians simply disappeared before I really even noticed.

While the music played, Hilal, Tamalyn, Danielle, and another guy named Fathi all danced.  Siwan dance, traditionally, is a masculine thing, and it’s very, very interesting.  The men, stoned and drunk, hike up their galabiyyas above their knees by tying a scarf around their waste and they do a dance that is sensual and sexual, with movements that, anywhere else, would be assumed to be associated almost exclusively with female dance.  There is a long history of homosexuality among unmarried Siwan men (who are completely segregated from women before marriage), and the dance often becomes very homoerotic.  According to Tamalyn’s book, the men often simulate sex with each other, and while I didn’t see it get to that point, Fathi humped the ground to the great delight of the other men watching.

Around 2AM, the music ended and it was time for bed.  Danielle slept in a small tent that Hilal had brought, but the rest of us slept under heavy wool blankets on top of a tarp laid out on the sand.  Tushtush slept nearby, driving his truck up next to us and sleeping right by the driver’s side door.

Sleeping in the desert wasn’t that easy – there were some mosquitoes and the ground was uneven – but lying down on my back and being able to look at the millions of stars in the dark desert sky was a pretty special feeling.

I woke up before sunrise the next morning, the first person awake in the camp, and I climbed up a nearby dune hill to watch.  It was pretty spectacular, and it was amazing the way it went so quickly from cold to warm when the sun came over the horizon.

Eventually, the sun rose high enough to wake everyone else up, and we left to head back to town around 9:00AM.  I headed back to my hotel to take a shower, feeling sandy and dirty from my night in the desert.  Most of that day I spent lounging, reading at the restaurant where I was eating lunch and then at an ahwa.  At the ahwa, I ran into the same guy from the day before and we talked again.  I also ordered hot tea.  It’s testament to the ways in which Egypt has changed me that, on a hut desert afternoon, I decided to sit outside and drink hot tea to relax.

In the evening, I met up with Danielle and another girl who she had met in Siwa for dinner.  We ate at Daniell’e hotel, and the food was actually quite good.  I had a date milkshake and lamb shank, both of which were very tasty.  Danielle and I had decided to ride back to Cairo together the next morning. and we decided to look around at the craft stores to see if there was anything we needed.  She wanted a Siwan wedding dress, which are big black, silk dresses with very intricate embroidery all over.  She found one she liked in the store owned by Fathi, the young man who had danced with us the night before.  She asked Hilal to go and try to negotiate the price down some, and he did try but didn’t get it down any more than she had.

We all ended up drinking tea sitting on the floor of Fathi’s shop until midnight.  One of the guys there was a congenitally deaf guy about 20 years old named Shazali.  He had of course never learned formal sign language, but he and the other Siwan guys seemed able to communicate pretty easily, even talking about old memories, and it was very cool to watch this sort of organic sign language in action.  I also had the unique experience of being made fun of by a deaf Siwan in invented sign language: Shazali, in good humor, made fun of my sunburn while we were sitting together taking some.

I went home and a while after going to my room heard someone outside say “salaam aleikum.”  I went back outside to see what was up, and there was an old Siwan man standing outside my room.  I asked him what was up, and he just said he was going to be sleeping on the couch in the common room.  We talked for a minute, but the Siwan accent to his Arabic made his speech nearly incomprehensible to me.  I guess he wanted to let me know he was there so it wouldn’t startle me, but I’m really not sure.

The next morning Danielle and I caught a bus back to Cairo.  The first leg, to Marsa Matruh, had no air conditioning and was pretty miserable.  It also stopped, again, at the desert rest stop with the world’s worst restroom.  Thankfully, there was good air conditioning from Matruh to Cairo.

As we approached the city, I began to think about how, after several days in beautiful, calm, and quiet Siwa I was heading back to dirty, crazy, loud Cairo.  I imagined stepping off the bus and being assaulted by the smog and the noise and wondering what I was doing here.

But it didn’t happen like that.  Instead, we drove into Cairo through some of the most beautiful land I’d seen in Egypt, farmland lusher than any in Siwa that made me remember that it was Cairo and the Nile, not the oases, that were once the breadbasket of the Roman empire.  The city was loud, and the air was dirty, but it seemed not so offensive as I thought it would.  And after getting home, I walked to my favorite neighborhood restaurant to get koshari and I ran into Max.  We got a few bowls and went up to the roof of our building and had a pleasant dinner and then tea with Safi, and it was very nice.  And I realized that for all its problems, I’m really going to miss Cairo when  I leave it.

Ice Cream

Lizz and I went to Zamalek tonight to meet a friend for dinner, and afterwards we decided to go to this really good ice cream shop for desert.  While we were walking, a young looking kid came up to us with a bunch of fresh mint, trying to sell it to us.  Lizz and him talked a bit as we walked, and when we reached the ice cream shop, Lizz told him that we didn’t need any mint but asked him if he wanted ice cream.  He said yes very quickly.

When he walked into the store with us, the manager stopped him and told him to go away.  Lizz said she was buying him ice cream, and they said fine but he had to leave as soon as he got it.  They didn’t want street children in there.

We went over to the counter and asked what he wanted.  He just said white – I’m pretty sure he had no idea what the colors or flavors were.  Lizz bought him a cone of white and he left before we could even pay, not wanted at the store and needing to work.

He was twelve and looked seven.

Alexandria

I got back from my trip Sunday, and I’ve been a bit lazy about writing.  Because it was pretty long and I did a lot, I’ve decided to break it up into two parts so that, hopefully at least, no single post approaches the length of my Istanbul post.

The best way to get to Alexandria, north of Cairo on Egypt’s Mediterranean coast, is by train, and so the morning I hoped to leave I went to Ramses Station near my office to get on a train.  It left at 11:00, and I was lucky to buy one of the last two tickets – all the trains were very crowded because it was a national holiday and a lot of people were going to Alex to go to the beach.  The woman who bought the last ticket, and with whom I ended up sitting on the train, was an Egyptian woman who had moved to Copenhagen thirty years ago to marry a Danish guy.  She was originally from Alexandria and was heading back there to visit family.

She and I ended up talking for most of the trip to Alexandria, about two hours.  In Tanta, a town half way between Cairo and Alex where we stopped briefly, she insisted I buy some of the town’s famous sweets from the vendors who frantically run onto the train during its brief stop and don’t jump back off until the train is moving again.  I bought a few, and they were pretty good; she bought one of everything.

While we were talking, she asked me where I was from and I told her America.  She told me about her one, extremely brief visit to America.  She flew into Atlanta a couple years ago to visit friends, apparently, and as she told it to me was harassed by the TSA people over her name – they didn’t believe she was Danish – and she made some sort of joke in response.  Apparently they didn’t like this and handcuffed and arrested her and put her in jail overnight before sending her back the next day to Copenhagen.  She showed me her passport and the comment that TSA had written in refusing her entry, citing some sections of the Immigration and Nationality Act.  I wrote down the citation and looked it up back at home, and it makes me wonder about the story.  The specific subsection cited in the refusal simply says that a person is inadmissable if they don’t possess a valid passport and visa.  I guess maybe they really didn’t believe it was her passport.

In any case, we talked most of the trip.  She was curious about what I was planning on doing in Alex, and she seemed sort of shocked that I was going without any idea at all where I was staying or what I would do.  I guess because she felt bad for me or something she decided that she would call me later that evening and take me to her favorite restaurant for dinner.  I said sure, though I didn’t know if it would happen or not.

I had been told by a number of Egyptians, all from Alex, that I needed to see the city.  That it was much prettier and cleaner and cooler than Cairo – Cairo paled in comparison.  So, I had some level of excitement in heading towards Alexandria.  As we approached the outskirts of the city, however, I began to doubt how much different the city could really be.  The buildings I began to see were of the same horrible, concrete style that is everywhere in Cairo, and their white or tan paint was covered with the same dark dust and grime.  Even the windows of the buildings had shutters that, like in Cairo, retained their factory green paint.

I don’t know whether it is romanticism or simply the presence of the ocean that makes some people believe Alexandria to be such a better or prettier city.  The city was, undoubtedly, once great – among the most cosmopolitan and literary cities of the world.  In the 1940s, Alex had 400,000 residents, of whom I believe 40% were foreigners.  Now, the city has over five million people and none of the cultural diversity that made the city vibrant in the past.  The many foreigners and Jews were chased out of the country in the 1950s, and the rapid population growth has manifested itself in the ugly concrete towers reminiscent of Soviet bloc cities.

When I arrived, I decided to first try to see the catacombs of Kom ash-Shuqqafa, which were supposed to be quite near the train station.  I walked for a while but quickly got lost and had a glass of tea at an ahwa while I tried to get my bearings.  I realized I’d walked further than I’d wanted to and decided to take a cab to the catacombs.  I had no sense of taxi costs in Alex, but I decided that since the catacombs were fairly near, I shouldn’t have to pay more than 5LE.  The first cab I asked, though, of course saw me as as tourist and said that the price was 20LE.  I said I’d pay 5LE, and he said that was not enough so I walked away, at which point he realized he was losing me as a customer and started shouting lower prices out the window.  I didn’t really want to give him my business, though, and walked to another cab that immediately offered a price of five pounds.

The catacombs are an ancient necropolis that was used around the time of Alexander.  It’s three stories, all underground, and there are big tombs carved into the stone along with sitting rooms and other halls where families could come to visit their dead relatives.  It’s dark and wet and, since I was the only person down there, quite creepy.  Unfortunately the pictures I took aren’t any good because they confiscated my good camera and I had to take the pictures with the small one, which didn’t have much success in the low light.  The weirdest part of the catacombs was this one room where there is a wood and glass case full of what appears to be a jumble of human bones.  There is no signage about this case, and there are no other signs or cases in the catacombs.  It’s strange.

After the tombs I had a cab take me to the water near the area where most of the hotels are.  I spent several hours trying to find a hotel – the good cheap ones were booked for the holiday, and most of the unbooked ones wanted way too much money for the ugly and dirty rooms I saw.  I finally ended up in a small hotel on the fourth floor of an apartment and office building in a tiny, not particularly clean room without a private bathroom.  It was 30LE – less than $6 – and clean enough that I didn’t feel gross, so I figured it’d work for the night.  When I came back later that night, there were other guests, all Egyptian families who I guess were visiting the beach.

With regard to the hotel, though, I wonder if somehow I got the worst room.  When I was leaving in the afternoon, the manager was showing rooms to this Japanese tourist.  When I came out of my room I couldn’t lock the door so the manager was helping with it, and the Japanese guy assumed it was a room for him to see.  The manager wouldn’t let him, and said something to the effect of the room being “for Americans.”  I walked by the other room the Japanese guy was seeing and it looked much bigger and nicer.

Most of the afternoon I just spent walking along the Corniche and sitting by the water.  It’s pretty and the breeze was nice, but all the beaches are overcrowded and, worse, full of trash.  I know I would not have been able to bring myself to swim at any of the beaches I saw in Alex.

In the evening, Mona, the woman from the train called me and asked if I wanted to meet for dinner.  We ended up going to a restaurant called Housny, which she said was her favorite in Alex.  It’s a huge three or four story restaurant gaudily decorated in the marble and gold and mirrors that are so common in somewhat upscale Egyptian restaurants.  The restaurant was incredibly crowded, and the waiters and managers and food runners were running and yelling and shoving all over the place.  The food, though, was really good – some of the better food I’ve had in Egypt.

After dinner, at about 11PM, I took a cab back to my hotel.  The corniche was about ten times more crowded than it was during the day, and so were the beaches.  Apparently everyone comes out at night in the Alexandria summers, and the street, for kilometers, looked like a giant party.

The next morning, after a sort of uncomfortable night of sleep in a lumpy bed, I headed out to catch my 8AM bus to Siwa.  I told my cab driver to take me to the “new bus stop,” which is where I’d been told to go when I bought my ticket the previous day.  I went expecting, I guess, an American-type bus stop with awnings and signs and some semblance of organization.  Obviously, this was naive.  Bus “stations” in Cairo tend to be places – corners or behind buildings – where buses and microbuses happen to stop.  The new bus stop in Alex is somewhat less haphazard than this, though.  It is a huge expanse of concrete full people and hundreds of buses, not to mention many more microbuses.  It took me quite a while to find where my bus company’s buses were aggregating, and longer than that to figure out what bus was supposed to be mine.  All the Egyptians, despite the total lack of signs, just seemed to know what buses to get on.  I don’t yet have such perceptive abilities.  After asking a number of people, though, I finally got on my bus and we headed towards Siwa.

(It’s worth noting that directly next door to this insane scene where buses stop seemingly at random in the hot sun there is what appears to be a completely unused bus station, with awnings and everything.)

The bus ride was interesting and long – about seven hours.  I sat next an incredibly whiny man who would yell at the driver every time he would stop or slow down.  At each of the two rest stops we stopped at to let people use the restroom or get tea, where we were told we would have fifteen minutes, he would start honking the bus’s horn after about five, trying to get on the road immediately.  The result of his honking would be for everyone to think they were going to miss the bus and rush back to their seats – everyone but the actual driver, who, knowing the bus couldn’t leave without him, would leisurely drink his tea for the remaining ten minutes of rest time.  Various people on the bus got off at random stops in the middle of the desert – each time, I couldn’t see a single building in any direction so I don’t know where they were going (one old man got off the bus in the middle of the desert carrying only a giant bag full of cases of Cleopatra cigarettes).  At the many, many police checkpoints, cops would get on and hitch a ride to somewhere else.  Occasionally, the non-driving bus employee would come down the aisles to check tickets as if someone could have gotten off or on while driving.

Eventually I made it to Siwa, though, and I’ll write about that later.

Another Trip

Blogging will take another brief hiatus, as I’ve decided to go on another trip and will most likely not have internet.

I spent most of today just sitting around and doing nothing exciting or interesting, and I realized that I don’t want to spend my last few weeks here like that.  So, around six this evening I decided that I would leave Cairo tomorrow morning and go… somewhere.

That somewhere, at the moment, seems to be Alexandria, where I will head by train in the morning and probably spend tomorrow night.  After that, I think I’m going to take the eleven hour bus ride to Siwa, which is a remote oasis in far western Egypt, almost to Libya.  The oasis has been inhabited for something like 12,000 years, and it seems to be full of ruins and the like.  Moreover, it’s in the middle of the desert, so if all goes well I’ll spend a night or two out in the desert as well.  Then, on the way back, I’m considering spending a day in Marsa Matruh, which is a resort town on the Caribbean that I have to stop over in to connect buses in anyways.

I have no real itinerary – no reservations for tickets or hotels or hostels in either Alex or Siwa – so where I am and where, as well as when I come back is up in the air.  I suspect, though, that I’ll be away five days or a week.

A few days ago, I remarked to Max while reading some article in Al-Ahram Weekly, the English version of the main government paper here, that the level of journalism was pretty horrible.  The articles seemed to constantly be criticizing the Copts or talking about a nascent Shia takeover.  Plus, the writing was absolutely atrocious.  Max told me that the Arabic version wasn’t much better.

I’d been reading Al-Ahram because it was the only Egyptian news source I knew of that published in English beyond the occasional articles in the Times or wire services.  Someone told me the other day, though, about the Daily Star, apparently an independent English daily, and so today I checked it out.  At least on their online version, they simply don’t seem to have enough news to fill a daily paper, so I wonder what is in the print copy.  I’ve noticed this problem with Al Ahram, too, and it confuses me – this is one of the world’s largest cities, and ther simply must be interesting things to cover.  Hell, NYC has its own 24-hour news station (though this is not necessarily a positive development).  Some of what is in the star, though, is somewhat interesting.  It’s aimed, fairly obviously, at the wealthy English speaking population in Cairo, so it has articles about mountain resorts and the like as well as stories about human rights issues and societal liberalization that I’m not sure always find a home in news sources aimed at locals.  That said, some of these articles seemed fairly silly or wrong, like one on a “trend” of girls abandoning the hijab here.  I don’t know that I believe in the existence of this trend – most other news sources are still talking about the increasing religiosity of the Egyptian population.

But the most bizarre thing I read all day came from an article on virginity and marriage.  It’s a serious human rights and feminism topic, and therefore one I’m interested in – an accidentally broken hymen in a girl getting married can lead to terrible consequences for the girl, even an honor killing in some places and under some circumstances.  The article in question talks about hymen reconstruction surgery – evidence, I suppose, of the wealthy readers of the paper.  In particular, it talks about the case of one Egyptian girl who had pre-marital sex and is now basically ineligble for marriage.  Ok, interesting.  But the article also contains this account of her story with an absolutely painful final sentence:

When Nada went off to college, she was young, hopeful and innocent. She met Omar in her second year, and believed it was love at first sight. He professed his undying affection for her, and made her feel wanted. It seemed natural to her that their relationship would progress physically as it matured emotionally.

Omar had promised that as soon as he was able to, he would ask for her hand in marriage, but after graduation the two drifted apart.

His promise of forever was broken, and so was Nada’s hymen.

I don’t even know what to say.

Also, went to dinner tonight with Reham and had an interesting conversation about hijab.  She is quite liberal and feminist in most ways, but she does wear a headscarf, and so I tried to delicately ask about why it was she decided to do that.  She told me, simply, that she wore it becuase in her opinions the Quran commanded her to do so and that she believed in the Quran.  My own opinions on hijab are somewhat conflicting.  On one hand, I think the American, First Amendment-absolutist part of me finds laws like those that have been passed in France and Turkey banning the hijab in certain places – schools, government offices – are unjustifiable on a free expression basis, and so I oppose them.  On the other hand, it seems to me that hijab can’t be separated from the culture’s subjugation of women.  I’m an atheist, and so while I feel that an individual’s personal belief that she should wear a hijab is fine, I’m more interested in the societal pressures to cover, which seem to be quite separate from religion.  As with the reasons for FGM – which has no religious basis whatever – the pressures that lead to covering seem to boil down to a societal discomfort with femaleness, especially female sexuality.  Reham agreed that the society seems to not much care for women, but seemed to think that there was, once, a logical reason for the hijab – that, in some historical context now lost the hijab conferred some sort of respect on women.  I fail completely to see what logic could ever have existed, and I reject the argument based on the hijab conferring respect to women for the same reasons that, in Western society, I reject the arguments from anti-feminists who wish to relegate women to certain roles – child rearing, homemaking, etc. – and argue that, in these roles, the women are respected and on a pedastal.  Such respect, when it defines the bounds of what may be respectable, is necessarily subjugative.

I fear I’m not really writing clearly, and I have some trouble talking and writing about this subject.  I don’t really feel like I’ve thought it all through, and I have some reservations about making societal criticisms (Reham noticed this when we were talking – she said I was being very careful and politically correct in my speech).  I guess that there is a constant, creeping feer that I’m being imperialistic or Orientalist when I engage in these sorts of criticisms, and I think that for someone in my position it is important to be aware of that risk.  Still, I suppose that I don’t believe that you can care about human rights and be culturally relativistic about those same rights, and I believe women don’t have enough rights here.

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